[dropcap type=”1″]Y[/dropcap]ou are trying really hard to keep the relationship with your loved on going! You come up with all sorts of ‘love tricks to keep your man interested. You plan romantic nights away, you dress up in sexy lingerie and you create of romantic set ups in order to keep him stimulated. But are you forgetting the most important successful relationship ‘trick’?

You have to keep your verbal communication exciting. You have to keep talking. Whatever problem bothers you, communicate it. And by communication we don’t mean just texting!

[quote_box_center]If you have unresolved issues, talk them out. When you are going through rough emotional times, open up to your partner/boyfriend/girlfriend/husband and let them in, they do want to help.[/quote_box_center]

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When we stop engaging in deep conversations with our partners, like we used to when we first met, the quality of our relationship deteriorates

Lack of effective verbal communication in an intimate relationship signals problems you really don’t want to be having. When we stop engaging in deep conversations with our partners, like we used to when we first met, the quality of our relationship deteriorates.

In other words, we disengage, we create a void in between us and we are getting further away from each other. Before we know it, we are in the brick of a major relationship breakdown and we usually wonder how things got so bad.

Talking help us understand, listen, share and effectively communicate. Silence is never a good sign unless you are both watching a movie at the cinema. Under no circumstances do we suggest that there won’t be moments where silence IS gold but there are some ‘rules’ we need to abide by when we are having a conversation with our loved one.

  • Use mindfulness when listening to your partner – don’t just nod.
  • Make sure he knows your are paying attention, don’t let your mind wander off while he is talking

Remember: Good conversations lead to good sex! Positive talking leads to flirting and flirting leads to seducing . Playful chatting is the beginning to all good sex.

  • Being able to communicate your feelings and emotions and difficult issues is what keeps you together.  You have done this before, when you met, you have just forgotten.
  • Realize that to keep the verbal interaction alive in your relationship is YOUR duty and you owe it to yourselves and your partner to be good at it.
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Remember: good conversations lead to good sex!

[quote_box_right]Having a healthy flow of meaningful verbal communication with your partner, enhances the quality of your relationship, is a sign of love, happiness, fulfillment and satisfaction.[/quote_box_right]

Keep that talking going girls, you know how to do it, you just need to put more effort in it this time – it COULD save your relationship!

Source: Richard Templar – Rules of Life

Psychologist, world citizen, mother - Effie is one half of the alwaysladies.com founding pair. She can bring to life any party with either a smile, or a strong opinion. If like us you can't get enough of Effie, visit her blog at www.thethinkingmomblog.com

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